January 2012
5 posts
New Year's Eve
taintedlovelife:
I think after age 26 people just stop worrying about finding the person they’re going to kiss at midnight. This isn’t an age of Harry and Sally, we’re just trying to have the best time possible with great people and sing Auld Lang Syne terribly off-key.
But, I could be completely wrong. Do traditions involving affection bother you when you don’t participate in them?
I agree,...
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Does Ashley Madison Work? →
I’ve always wondered about how well AshleyMadison.com works for the people who use it. And even though it’s motto of “Life is short. Have an affair.” seems a bit distasteful to most people, I still think it could be the best valid means of having an affair should one be so inclined to stray from their partner anyways.
I have seen some bloggers and journalists who have...
December 2011
1 post
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Plenty Fish Inbox Email Success Rates for Men →
An interesting look at the success rates of men grouped by the frequency in which they send out messages to prospective dates. Taken from a survey of approximately 500 people who use PlentyofFish.com dating site.
November 2011
3 posts
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How To Delete PlentyofFish Profile →
So you’ve had enough of the bull crap on PlentyofFish, you’re sick of the perverts, tired of not having any women respond to your messages, and generally fed-up with trying to find a date on this free mediocre dating site. If this is the case then it’s likely you’ve been trying to figure out a way to delete your Plenty of Fish account and profile.
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OkCupid Profile Tips & Example →
A recent discussion on Reddit’s Seduction forum regarding attracting women using your OkCupid profile got much attention when one person claimed to be getting 110-120 visitors a week to his own personal profile, which we know is rare for a lot of men. Fortunately this gentleman was willing to share an example of his OkCupid profile tips and notes with it.
March 2011
0 posts
Porn Addiction and the Fall of Men →
17 years ago…
It’s four in the afternoon as I frantically tap away at my keyboard, navigating through menu after menu of soft green terminal text, searching for hidden file caches of…
January 2011
1 post
2011 Seduction ReBoot: Back to School →
Hey everybody, we’re all gonna get laid!
Though it’s a little bit late for New Year’s resolutions, I thought I might take some time and write out my personal strategery plans for…
November 2010
1 post
How To Unsubscribe From PlentyofFish Email... →
Every once in awhile I’ll get emails from people who are baffled as to how one can stop getting email notifications from the PlentyofFish dating site. Of course, this is understandable because…
October 2010
8 posts
Is Sending Flowers to a Girl Seductive? →
Photo Credit: Bernat Casero
This is part of a new series called, “Dueling Seduction Bloggers.” One controversial topic, two competing perspectives.
It’s a tradition…
All Dudes Learned How To Dress and it Sucks →
“They’re all telling each other what works for them and being constructive and honest and the result is just so much more effective/destructive than any Neil Strauss edict ever. The new negging is just dressing so damn well that you make me feel crazy insecure…”
Cleaning Your Refrigerator Will Get You Laid →
I reach into the back of my refrigerator and grab a small mysterious Tupperware container, no doubt it is leftovers from several Thanksgivings ago. I slowly crack open the…
Dealing with Negative Emotions →
Do you ever feel like this?
As I eject the DVD, I can’t help but feel relieved that this was the last in the series. I was determined to finish all five seasons and I did. While…
Best Examples of Cocky Funny: The Aunt Jemima... →
“Chicks dig me because I rarely wear underwear, and when I do, it’s usually something unusual.” – Bill Murray
When most guys get into the Game, one of the first things…
How to get The Most From Your Online Dating Site →
Yet another post from guest writer, Lior
Every once in a while, you’ll hear that online dating is a rip-off or that online dating sites only care about making money. If you look on You Tube,…
Moisturizer For Men →
I can’t believe I just did that. I was bamboozled. There must be a way out. I grab for the receipt out of my back pocket and slowly read over the fine print… dammit, “no refunds.”…
September 2010
3 posts
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Overblown Sexual Harassment Claims: Ines Sainz →
As most people are probably aware, there is a huge non-issue being circulated through-out the media and Interwebs concerning the recent allegations of sexual harassment towards…
Missing Signals of Attraction From Women →
We are standing at the corner of the bar engaged in light flirty conversation. The dialogue at the time was concerning the last season of True Blood and how the Post Office damaged one…
August 2010
6 posts
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Don't Be Ugly By Accident! →
If you’re anything like me, you usually think of your pics in terms of content: Here’s me smiling. Here’s me looking tough. Here’s me in Hawaii with that wacky turtle. And so on. Today, however, we’ll analyze photography from a numerical angle—we’ll discuss flash, focus, and aperture instead. We feel like people don’t really think about these things when...
Take an Interest in Special Interest Dating →
Today’s article is a guest post by Allison Schleck
In simple words, dating can really suck. You invest so much time and attention in one person and in the end, this person isn’t really even into…
PlentyofFish Site Offline, Not Available →
So it looks like the PlentyofFish.com site is offline as I’ve been attempting to access the page since this morning and either get a “service not available” note or some weird code gibberish…
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Women Attracted to Men in Red →
Simply wearing the color red or being bordered by the rosy hue makes a man more attractive and sexually desirable to women, according to a series of studies by researchers at the University of Rochester and other institutions. And women are unaware of this arousing effect.
In other news, I just went out and bought an all new entirely red wardrobe
July 2010
3 posts
Girls and Guys Who Spit in Public →
Illustration: Natelle Quek
This is something that has been starting to irk the shit out of me lately. I’m not sure why I care so much, maybe it’s because I’m becoming more…
Was the Cowardly Lion Just Masturbating Too Much? →
“As users manage to abstain from porn and cut way back on masturbation, their desire to connect with others surges. So does their confidence, their ability to look others in the eye, their sense of humor, their perception of their “manliness,” their concentration, their optimism, their judgment, their attractiveness to potential mates, and so forth.”
June 2010
5 posts
My iPhone Adultery →
I haven’t actually cheated on my husband yet, but each text message I send brings me closer
10 Creepiest Craigslist Casual Encounter →
Craigslist is great for finding a used bike or cheap tickets to the ballgame. Oh, and also for posting pictures of your genitals and telling the world that you’re a “bottom.”
Why Are You Single? Perhaps It's the Choice Effect →
“It’s impossible not to constantly wonder if there’s something better, someone better.”
May 2010
2 posts
When a Girl Says She Likes Nerdy Nice Guys… →
Being on the Internet, we often finds ourselves consumed in red hot debates over topics which make a lot of assumptions. When non-agreed upon assumptions are made by multiple parties,…
7 Observations on Dating for Short Guys →
For many men height can be an issue and being a short guy tends to cause those men to have a lot of hang-ups in life. You see, the self-esteem issues of being short for a male is like…
November 2009
3 posts
Sample Online Dating Email Messages →
Lately I have been getting really good at having great flirty conversations on PlentyofFish. I’ve found that the most successful email message exchanges, regardless if I initiate contact with the…
Vegetarian Singles vs. BBQ Singles →
Are you having trouble looking for dates with high I.Q.s and great bodies? Well, all you have to do is a search on your favorite online dating site for the word “vegetarian.” Yup, that’s…
10 F*cked Up Online Dating Stories →
Sure, plenty of people have found love on the Internet. Some find promiscuous flings. Some even end up getting married. This article isn’t about those types of online dating stories. This is about…
October 2009
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My Cougar Dating Story →
One year ago… She’s sitting down the bar twirling a tiny straw around in high ball glass of what I presume is a gin and tonic. She’s got a tight body and is all prettied up with make-up, hair and…
Vegetarian Dating Options? →
It just occurred to me that Plenty of Fish doesn’t has an option to categorize oneself as a vegan or vegetarian. There are plenty of other things to categorize oneself by like religion, body type,…
July 2009
1 post
Examples of Good Male Dating Profiles →
Over the past week, I have been scouring through tons of Male Plenty of Fish online profiles. Not that I’m checking out guys or anything (I love the ladies) but I was trying to look for some examples…
May 2009
1 post
Social Proof in Online Dating Profiles →
What if there was a way to influence potential online daters to perceive you and your Plenty of Fish profile as more attractive? There is a way, it may not be up some people’s alley, but we’re going…
April 2009
4 posts
Profile | Plenty of Fish | Readernaut →
In addition to all this, I’ve recently gotten into the field of online dating, most particularly the Plenty of Fish online dating site. I’ve been doing a lot of research on PlentyofFish, doing experiments like figuring the optimal number of pictures that a profile should display, how different types of social proof work in attracting online dates, etc.
Plenty of Fish Serious Member Effectiveness →
It’s been about 1 month now since Plenty of Fish launched it’s serious member upgrade option. . This new feature basically included nothing more than having your profile search results appear in a…
Plenty of Fish →
Viddler.com - Viewing plentyoffish's Profile →
Hi everyone, This is my little spot on Viddler where I intend to promote my videos about Plenty of Fish dating. For those of you that don’t know, PlentyofFish is a free online dating site that has quickly grown to be one THE top dating sites in the world. Though the site has been met with some criticism in regards to peoples ability to find, meet and attract quality people on the site, I...